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Shyness is inability to face the daily life situations and society. Child arrested into multiple failures in life because he/she not able to commit or demand and never understand the socialization. The child has low temperament. This type of children never took any decisions and incapable to distinguish between good or bad. Their shyness is sometimes express-able. They often take secrets but when somebody like caretaker or parents or other close family member is much more lenient than other he broke his shyness little bit and speak well. There are number of ways to help shy child.
1. Socialization: A person is said to be socialize who can deal the environmental problems and have ability to change them accordingly as well as how he deal with people and committed. Parents of shy child should organize parties or occasion or some sort of family get together. There should be due importance paid to child to feel them excited and take wise decisions.
2. Communication Skill: Talk them thoroughly so that child could express his thinking and idea to enhance and develop creativity. No person in the world has ‘0’ cognitive level even a child has schema (unit of thinking) then assimilate and accommodate his existing knowledge. The need is to reduce the fear, which ultimately lessons his hidden terror.
3. Appreciation: Psychology pays a lot of importance to appreciation. This is the behavioral view of cognitive development of psychology. Person do ant thing to be apprehend. But this stimulus stop, interest will lose. This appreciation provides self confidence to living body that has brain and mind, thus why not the child will respond to such positivity.
4. Explanation: Give the task certainly based on presentations or quizzes. Allot incentives and rewards to each valuable question. There are some roles of teacher: Prompt (verbal appreciation) the child after explanation. teacher should have to associate with child and assist him/her accordingly. Then there is certain relaxation and fearless child be introduced in society.
5. Give Love And Attention: Parents have to show their support and love according to needs. They should try to spend most of their time with child for moral conduction and reduce shyness. This is the foremost principle of personality development because it comes from home (trustful zone). One of more important thing in which school play major role is to reduced students indifferences, sometime it also exist in home. According to psychology, the middle child often shows shyness.
6. Reduce Abstract (unseen-able) Visualization (ideas): Children have innate ability to think in mind because it shortcomings are stored as previous knowledge. This habit develops strongly with growth and development. Now the need is to vomit and sharing of thinking by entering cognitive conflict. These can either be positive and negative. Shyness often leads to bad habits and manners, because child is disgraces by school, society and even home. He or she thinks more than implementation. Visualization is good but not always it has equal negativities. This is the major opinion to help shy child to reduce his incapability.
7. Don’t Compare With Other: Comparisons like shyness and boldness make the kid more worried in own-self. Shyness is reduced by overcoming the inner fear. People feel that this is childhood, kid will overcome in adulthood, and it never left. If it is neglected in infancy, gradually become stronger.